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Author Ayandola Ayanleke

How to Be a Better Public Speaker

The anxiety before you get on stage! The nervousness while on stage! The heavy breaths and sweaty palms! If you are afraid to speak in public, you can probably relate to all the feelings described above. Trust me, I understand,… Continue Reading →

How to Cope with a Critical Partner

Dating a critic is probably one of the hardest things to do. I can imagine that most people with critical partners always ask, “what to do when your partner is too critical?” I know it seems hopeless because of how… Continue Reading →

If You See These Signs, You Are Dating a Psychopath

One word that is thrown around a lot in the dating world is narcissist, and for so many reasons, that’s valid; narcissists should definitely be avoided.  Also Read: Signs You Are Dating a Narcissist But there is one even deadlier… Continue Reading →

How to Become a Better Communicator

Man is a social being; we are wired to relate and communicate with one another. This is probably why it seems like extroverts get ahead; it is because they are better communicators. But you see, you can become a better… Continue Reading →

Signs He Wants to Reject You But Doesn’t Want to Hurt You

If you are a good person with a good heart, there is a chance that you may be hesitant to reject an equally good person because you don’t want to hurt them. It is always easier to reject a bad… Continue Reading →

Signs Your Boyfriend Is Taking Advantage of You

When you start a relationship, you are likely starting with the hope that your partner loves you as much as you do. You are hoping that they care about you and your happiness. Unfortunately, not everybody thinks the way you… Continue Reading →

Reasons to Break Up with Someone You Love

There is something about being in love that makes us feel like we can conquer all. Or that we have superpowers and can turn even the worst situation around.  The thing is that, ideally, people who are in love don’t… Continue Reading →

Guest Post: Bring Confidence Back Into Your Life

Written by: Sarah Bull Confidence. It’s how we believe in ourselves and know that we’re able to live up to our potential and goals. Confidence also allows us to take risks and challenge ourselves. And it’s what enables us to build positive… Continue Reading →

Tips to Ask a Guy of His Intentions Towards You

Understanding how a guy feels about you can be very confusing, especially when his intentions are unclear. As a woman, it is completely normal to want to know where you stand in a relationship. After all, you deserve to know… Continue Reading →

Ways to Tell a First Date Went Well

First dates can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. This is largely because you’re getting to know someone new and trying to make a good impression. Unfortunately, you and your date can have completely different impressions of each other. While you… Continue Reading →

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