Tag: Relationship

THINGS TO REMEMBER AT THE BEGINNING OF A RELATIONSHIP

January 2, 2020 By Ayandola Ayanleke

The beginning of a relationship is probably the most important time in any relationship because the culture that you start at the beginning will largely set the pace for the relationship. A lot of people, however, make mistakes at the beginning of the relationship because they are usually in what is called the “honeymoon stage” […]

HOW TO MAKE HIM WANT TO MARRY YOU

January 1, 2020 By Ayandola Ayanleke

You love him and you desire to marry him. It is a valid desire. However, there is usually the dilemma of expressing this desire because you don’t want to seem needy or push him away. Your best bet is making him think it is his idea in the first place. How do you make him […]

OUR LOVE STORY: TEEKAY

November 24, 2018 By Ayandola Ayanleke

  After I moved into the hostel in UI, the next thing was for me to find a fellowship or church to attend. But because laziness is my trademark, I decided fellowship would be better since it is inside the school and I might not need to go too far to worship. We were added […]

LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP

October 26, 2018 By Ayandola Ayanleke

Will Smith clocked 50 recently – I think few weeks ago and he went for one historic jump around the Grand Canyon. But that’s not the story. I saw pictures and videos on his, his wife’s and ex-wife’s IG page. Yeah, you read right, ex-wife. Well, they have a blended family. A family so blended […]

WE ONLY HAVE ONE ANOTHER

October 16, 2018 By Ayandola Ayanleke

Last election, I supported Former President Goodluck Jonathan against President Buhari and I remembered the jabs to my person that I suffered. Some, I cautioned; some I smiled at. Even then, I knew it wasn’t necessary. I didn’t have anything against them supporting President Buhari even though it amazed me that they couldn’t see what […]

MARRIED OR MARRIED

October 5, 2018 By Ayandola Ayanleke

I read a story a while back on Facebook. According to the story, a lady married a man who is more conservative than she is and she is now living with regret. The Cliffs Notes version is that he told her she would need to do away with makeup, trousers and all that because he […]

ASSUMPTIONS IN RELATIONSHIPS

May 12, 2017 By Ayandola Ayanleke

Alicia was pissed, oh it grated. She couldn’t believe how much. She tossed and turned again in bed, trying to find the right position to dispel the overwhelming boredom. “Idleness is mean,” she grumbled to the empty room. But that was not what put her in a snit. It was her stupid boyfriend, whom she […]

LETTING GO (II)

July 11, 2014 By Ayandola Ayanleke

Sara tried to act indifferent when Derek told her almost immediately they entered the restaurant that he had spotted Tamar and wanted to say hi. He told her to go ahead and order, he would join her soon. Derek never hid his relationship with Tamar from her, he had told her all about it before […]