Category: Relationship

GREAT VALENTINE’S DAY IDEAS FOR THIS YEAR

February 6, 2020 By Ayandola Ayanleke

I believe love should be celebrated every day; it is, after all, the greatest gift to man. However, I am not one of those who believe that celebrating Valentine’s Day is cliché. In my opinion, we should take every opportunity that we have been given to celebrate love. What can be cliché is if Valentine’s […]

BENEFITS OF LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS

February 1, 2020 By Ayandola Ayanleke

I really do not like it when people talk about long-distance relationships as though there is something wrong with it. I find it hard to understand why people make it seem like such a big deal. Don’t get me wrong, I understand that long-distance relationships require more work than couples who have geographical proximity. But […]

THINGS TO REMEMBER AT THE BEGINNING OF A RELATIONSHIP

January 2, 2020 By Ayandola Ayanleke

The beginning of a relationship is probably the most important time in any relationship because the culture that you start at the beginning will largely set the pace for the relationship. A lot of people, however, make mistakes at the beginning of the relationship because they are usually in what is called the “honeymoon stage” […]

HOW TO MAKE HIM WANT TO MARRY YOU

January 1, 2020 By Ayandola Ayanleke

You love him and you desire to marry him. It is a valid desire. However, there is usually the dilemma of expressing this desire because you don’t want to seem needy or push him away. Your best bet is making him think it is his idea in the first place. How do you make him […]

CREATIVE WAYS TO SAY I LOVE YOU

January 1, 2020 By Ayandola Ayanleke

“I love you” is probably the most powerful three-letter words in the world. It has the power to soften even the toughest of hearts and we cannot deny how fulfilling it leaves us, especially when it is coming from somebody we love. But we also cannot deny that how clichéd the expression has become. This […]

SIGNS YOU ARE IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

December 29, 2019 By Ayandola Ayanleke

I have been in relationships where I judged things wrongly; relationships I thought were healthy but weren’t and relationships I thought were unhealthy but were actually healthy. Sometimes, because we are in the situation, our definition of healthy and unhealthy can be really distorted. It usually takes someone who is removed from the situation to […]

HOW TO FIND LOVE AS AN INTROVERT

November 30, 2019 By Ayandola Ayanleke

I consider being introverted a beautiful thing … I am probably biased though because I am one. However, I readily agree that our personality traits can make finding love difficult. Some introverts try to become extroverts in their quest to find love and I don’t blame them; everybody wants to be loved. But being an […]